Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Happy Sunday!

I am so bad at taking pictures for documentation. I must confess, I've been too concerned with finding my way (characteristic of my general approach to life), so I decided to spend one Sunday to consciously take time capturing a week end here in Kuala Lumpur for back reading's sake.
St. John's Cathedral

At Tony Roma's (excellent service, by the way!) with ama annoying Ozzy. I'm spared one meal a week from cooking.

Ozzy enjoying the activity sheets given to him. He didn't actually want to take a picture here.

Fries for Ozzy

Bread for Ozzy

New York Strip Steak...for the mom.

Ama, catching up on some work.

Ama's burger and fries.

Aeon Supermarket for groceries.

A specialty store for pork. Our source for Ma-Ling.
Ozzy:  "I smell ma-ling mom!"

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Ozzy and Swearing



Ozzy and I have been arguing lately about swearing. He has been watching Batman, Superman, and other Superhero cartoons. I don't believe in protecting him from the world completely and so I let him and correct him when things are not good. And  so he has been exploring swearing words for the past three days-- constantly. We would argue about it as often too. He has tried "shit!", "oh, shit!", "damn", and what makes me flame up most of all "jesus!".

Today, we spent the afternoon fighting because he kept "practicing" during play. I was folding the laundry right beside him arguing that what he was saying was bad. He kept playing. I kept folding the clothes.

Suddenly, he stopped and looked at me with his big eyes as if a light bulb had turned on. Finally, a question that gave my parenting style more dignity than its had for the past three days: "Mommy, what do you say? What do you say when something goes wrong? What do you say when something goes wrong?" Dear heavens, thank you for that inspiration!

We explored our choices. And we agreed that "Oh man!" and "Oh no!" was the best way to go. He says he prefers "Oh man!" over "Oh no!" and so I said ok. Let's just limit it to that.

Parenting takes time and is embarrassing sometimes... but it has to be done.

Monday, July 22, 2013

Regalia Service Apartments, Chow Kit

Things are settling down and home life is beginning to have its natural rhythm again. I remember Bits’ first question when we woke up to our first morning in Malaysia. “What’s for breakfast?” And I had no idea how to begin.

The past weeks were spent searching for sources of food that we liked, familiarizing ourselves with the Condo and their rules, finding items that we needed and systems that could help us communicate with the rest of the world. I must say it was very easy to feel right at home. It may all be foreign but they are all very convenient.  It’s been a very fruitful three weeks!

There are two train stations near us: PWTC and the KTM Commuter.  The one we could see from our window is the KTM Commuter. Ozzy and I have watched lines of gasoline tanks, cargo, crates of construction materials, soot covered old trains, and shiny new white trains all buzzing by everyday. We love it. Ozzy has named a few of the trains already. Silly names that I can’t remember to pronounce myself.

The condo unit itself is just one big room. Although I miss having a complete kitchen that had almost everything, I am making do and still cooking good food for the husband. I think this proves that I’m a better cook now than I’ve ever been. (Welcome to the one pan challenge! Haha!) We don’t plan to put together a full kitchen while we stay here. It’s a lesson learned from several moves. Only have what you need.

We won’t be hiring cleaners and so cleaning duty is all on me. I like cleaning. It’s physical and Obsessive Compulsive work. It makes me feel in control of my environment and be as OC as I please! The floor is easy to clean, the bath is not so difficult to maintain, and laundry is sent out. I don’t iron. My everyday chores consist of cooking, doing the dishes, making the bed, and sweeping. Not really very demanding stuff.We are on a very high floor and so pollution doesn’t get to us as much. The place stays cleaner longer. Ozzy too. Today I asked him to take a bath and he protested “but I’m not dirty yet!”  Although, it’s funny how we have fruit flies and much to my surprise mosquitoes this high up. I’m still figuring out what to do with them I like it that we live out here on our own.  And although the bathroom door fronts the floor to ceiling glass window, I must admit I am loving this kind of privacy. We meet people of different nationalities in the elevator. It’s a very “international community” in here, but everyone seems to be going about their own way. And we, ours. Precious.

The next door neighbour sometimes drop heavy things on their floor (weights? a pulldown bed? a big heavy door? I dunno). Construction is happening in another unit so you could just imagine the hammering and the drilling during the day. (Not too bothersome though. I think I’ve been hearing the hammering less and less. Hopefully they are almost done.) We could hear the vehicles from the street and the trains passing by.Yesterday, I could hear a motorist shouting at a driver of a van in the middle of the highway. And we were on the 24th floor! We could also hear the elevator chime when someone comes off and I could tell when people are coming home at the end of the day. This place is alive 24/7, but these everyday noises make us feel right at home.  


There was a fire alarm that went off the other day. Ozzy and I got to the stairwell and started going down. I realized how far up we were as I was panting and Ozzy kept begging to ride the elevator. Haha, at some point we did take the elevator.  We were told that somebody had been smoking. My leg muscles hurt the next day. Smoking and Rowdy behaviour are among the things that are not allowed in the Condo.  And so I’m careful not to burn anything in the oven or have Ozzy screaming too loudly at the pool area. Heaven knows there’s no volume control on that boy when he’s having fun!.

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

12th Day in KL MY Already!

It was the first time I flew alone with my son. I spent so much time doing research about surviving our trip together that I had a whole bag of magic tricks to entertain him. I even dreamed that we ended up in another country because I’ve had to pay attention to Ozzy’s antics and failed to read the signs. But we didn’t get lost. And the trip we took was uneventful. Ozzy fell asleep in the plane even before the plane took off. I had to wake him up while we were landing. He was in his seatbelt the whole trip and all I had an issue with was that the man behind me kept kneading the back of seat with his knees.

We got held up in immigration when we landed in Malaysia. All we had was a visa stamped on our passport. The dependent’s pass were submitted to the Malaysian embassy in Manila and I had no copy of the papers. The immigration officer didn’t like it. I didn’t know I had to have the documents copied for myself. All I had was our passports with the issued single entry visa. After a while of consultation among other immigration officers, Ozzy being his usual impatient self, and my texting bits about what was happening, we were allowed to go through. We spent an hour in the airport before we were able to meet up with Bits. We were so happy to be reunited.








Sentral Market older than the Philippine Independence!

Chillin near the condo pool

We’ve been in Malaysia for a good 12 days now. It seems like a lifetime when you’re experiencing so many new things. Bits has gotten us a nice little place to rent. It’s a new condo building near PWTC (Putra World Trade Center). The place itself is clean, safe, and very far from all the hustle and bustle of Kuala Lumpur. Kuala Lumpur reminds me of Cebu. There is so much space and I could still enjoy the skyline while looking out from a cab window.




KLCC and the Petronas Towers

The trains can get you anywhere. Everything is connected by train. They don’t get filled up because almost everybody here owns a car. There is always room to sit at any time of the day. I am still trying to learn the train system and am still a bit afraid to go and get lost (especially with Ozzy). We have gone out to see KLCC and Petronas Towers to take pictures. We have ridden the Monorail which was quite a scary experience being on a tilting railway. 
That's a train station down there seen from our condo window.